Friday, December 23, 2011

Maayong Pasko

MERRY CHRISTMAS

MAAYONG PASKO

We toured around capturing some of the places we frequent in order to give our children, grandchildren and loved ones a little Christmas tour of our environs.

Our Christmas Present to you all.

We took most of the pictures pre-flood, but the last few are from after. Life goes on, people recover, and they even remember to take time to celebrate. May you each remember to celebrate, and more important, may you remember what it is we celebrate—the birth of the Prince of Peace, the bringer of Life and Light. We have seen so much evidence of his Love and influence. May you feel it too.

Merry Christmas from the market in Tanjay just north of Amlan 15 minutes, one of the many we shop at.

A few tuna for sale

A day in the market just before the tyhoon.

The market is full of all sorts of little friends, Can you see the one hiding on the turnips?

Chop suey and tomatos, which are never red here.

Elder and Sister Cropper without their name tags

Tanjay market décor

A girl playing near a tied up rooster in a restaurant at the market

Restaurant we often take the missionaries to in Tanjay after transfers, or District meeting. Notice the man playing the bottle instrument, and another on guitar.

In front of the Tanjay District building

Decorations at the entry to Tanjay

Tanjay wishes you a Merry Pasko

So does the mayor

A rice paddie between Tanjay and Amlan

The crab field before the flood

Ya, I love those crab homes. And these are small ones. Since the flood there are lots more of them

Sister Ybanez in her back yard

And with her dog, Cookie

And her pig, wishing you Merry Christmas (or trying to eat our sign)

A banana tree decoration on a house in the neighborhood

A Nipa plantation. Most of the houses make this into their roofing material

The Amlan river before it turned into a monster of destruction

The cemetery in the hill above the town

Elder Cropper, the matador. This is as close as he would get, scardey cat

In front of the Amlan chapel

Carrying Mangos to market

Carrying Jack fruit to market.Carrying everyone, anywhere.

After a day of Flood relief. The lights at Tanjay city Hall , when much of Amlan still had no electricity.

Erika playing it cool in her mom;s glasses.

The Relief Society dance performance in the church parking lot. Ya, I’m the huge one in the middle.

Sparky is alive and well in Amlan, Negros Oriental, Philippines. These are our two banana Christmas trees, as per the Christmas custom here—one on each side of your doorway. We also have 3 reindeer made of vines.

That's it for our Christmas tour. It takes hours to reduce, load and place pictures, and we have yet to be successful at sharing video with you, but we hope you can feel our love and best wishes at Christmas through this little project.

It is Christmas Eve here. we are having Elders over for breakfast and planning, then a baptism interview, then we will take the zone out for dinner. Christmas day itself will be early rising for Elder Cropper who has to go help the man he bought the pig from for the Paradise Christmas party. They will transport it here for the cooking. Then church in Amlan. It is supposed to be the Primary Children's program, but many are sick, including the Primary Pres, and she has only 1 other person in the primary. Hmmmm. Then in the afternoon we will go to the Paradise Christmas party where we know almost no one. It will be a very strange Christmas. But all our caroling is done, our gifts have been delivered, relief has been delivered, maybe our gifts were washed away, we do have lights on our banana trees; we have each other; we have the birth of a majestic baby to celebrate. Who needs anything more than that.

May you all have love and peace on Christmas day, and may you find both in abundance in the New Year. Love always,

Elder and Sister Cropper

Thursday, December 22, 2011

Christmas Trees and Balboys

Passing through the mahogany grove
the best Christmas place we ever saw.

I mean, how many times do you
follow a caribou while looking
for the favorite spot!

Sister Claus's helpers were waiting.









It's obvious which is the right tree. Sparky knows!













The only thing that is lacking is snow. Oh ya, and a few pine needles. On Negros Oriental, putting up a banana tree is with the fruit is not only a Christmas ornament but it is good luck.































My father grew up during the depression. He would have been about 14 years old in 1932, the height of the depression. I remember very him telling me stories about what it was like living through the Great Depression. Tonight at the branch Christmas party I was reminded of one of his stories. He told me that their family was so poor that when they killed a pig the only thing that they didn’t use was the squeal from the pig when it died. Tonight our branch had the Christmas party. The highlight was lechon balboy (roasted pig over hot coals). We bought a pig and donated it to the branch. It took about 5 hours with someone rotating the pig by hand. The roasted skin is the highlight.

Everything is used. This was a big pig. This is the pig after it was fully cooked. The crispy skin is the delicacy. The big guy with the meat cleaver is named Julius. I renamed him "Pork Chop" . He kind of likes the names. The last picture is where the pig was. The last thing to get chopped up was the head. I am not sure who took the ears and snout but it wasn't long until they were gone to.
What a difference from earlier in the day when we were walking through mud carrying rice and water.
The branch needed a party and got one.

Maayon Pasko!

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

Rivers recede, mud is drying

Another day of humanitarian aide, mostly today to church members who need help. Elder Cropper drove last night with the branch President into Dumaguete to buy 275 K of rice, 150 cans of fish, 200 packages of noodles, bars of detergent soap. We all (branch pres., his counselor, E Q pres., a few members) met at the church today and sorted it in to family-sized portions, then off we went to deliver again--to 19 families. We stopped on the way for a couple dozen 5 gallon jugs of water.Now remember, these families live in houses with no street address, and for the most part with no street, and, since the flood, they mostly don't even have a path. To one house I carried 20-30 K of rice and a bag of canned goods--that's like 50-60 pounds--into their house maybe 500 yards, with my boots sticking in the ooze. Am I too old for this?
The mud is mostly hardened, but I was very glad again for my boots in several spots where the dying things were now very visible, and the water was still trickling through thick ooze. You probably think you can imagine the smell, but I doubt you really can.
Many people now have fever or coughs. The skin on peoples' feet is getting itchy due to walking through it for several days with little access to water to clean it off.
Then we regrouped at the church after the deliveries, and bizarre of all surrealities, the mud-splattered Relief Society women gathered in the parking lot, me included, complete with their hired dance instructor (probably cost less than a chocolate bar, but still) to practice our performance for the Christmas party. Oh don't you worry, the party will go on!! People were expected to bring their own rice, but since most people don't have rice except for what we brought them, that seems a little over the top, so I and Sister Alma will cook rice all day tomorrow again.
But before the rice cooking, Elder Cropper and I will go and cut a Christmas tree!!
Yup, here in the island of Negros, the people cut down two huge banana trees each with a huge bunch of maybe a hundred bananas on it. They whack off the big leaves, then tie the trees to their front porch. They can add lights or decor, but mostly they don't. Then they just eat the bananas as they ripen.
We have seen these all over, but we didn't know they were in lieu of Christmas trees till tonight when we went, after dance practice, to teach at our friend the banana farmer's house. He told us of the tradition, said people order from him and he gets 3 times the normal amount for a bunch of bananas this time of year. We asked him if we could get one from him. He grabbed his really awesome machete and off we went into the banana jungle next to his house. He had to move a live electric wire that was strung through the jungle, then he whacked down the tree, catching the huge banana bunch in one hand as the tree fell to keep it from squashing. We are going back up tomorrow to collect that one and cut another.
So, who knew we would be cutting a tree here on our mission.
While we were practicing our dance in the parking lot, a contingent of folks pulled up--a couple of humanitarian service missionaries and a couple of church employees from Manilla. They said they had procured a truckload of supplies, that they would be delivered to the church building, that we were to separate them out like we did today with the stuff we got for members of the branch, only we are to deliver them to the city. They had made arrangements with the city social services who have a list of folks in need. These supplies will go to the city to distribute. Guess we get to don the yellow Mormon helping hands vests again for that event.
Tonight we went out to pay for the pigs, but plans changed, so we checked the church. No one there except Bro Ybanez walked up, without his pedi-cab. He was exhausted so we offered to take him home. The way to his house from the main road is almost impassable until today, he can finally get in. He's been staying at his mother-in-law's house which is really just a bamboo fence around a mud floor. On the way home with him we stopped to check on a family who was holding vigil for their dead father on Friday, then the flood came Sat. They were scheduled to have the burial Monday, but we had not checked in to see how that went at the Catholic church. The had their own miracle story to tell. As the floods rose, they moved the casket, then went back up stream to get all their belongings. It's a miracle no one drowned. The funeral went off as planned and the sister had even saved the food they'd purchased for the wake.
While in their house, the sister from the really bad mud pit house texted and asked if I could get her a pair of boots as a Christmas gift because the skin on her feet was wearing off. We were near, and though it was dark, we drove in as far as was safe without succumbing to the ooze and Elder Cropper put on his boots, and with only the tiny light from his cell phone walked in the rest of the way and gave her my most valued possession, my boots. He said he arrived at her house, called "Ayo", and she came out, very amazed to see him. He said she has never been so animated, and said, "ah!! Auto-mateeck."
Anyway, lots of folks are getting help. No matter where we went we were utilized, people who had been in need just seemed to fall into our path. We are doing nothing that each of you would not do if you were here. It is WAY more than I bargained for, but what else is there?
I will never forget dancing a Filipino version of cha-cha in the parking with a bunch of women half my size while a truck backs in with a load of temporary shelter materials for people like we've been slogging in to see most of the day. Oh life is sooooo strange.
And we did get the moment of loveliness on the banana plantation, up above all the devastation, in the quiet with the brilliant children. They served us banana bread, we talked of baptism and the Savior's precious gift to us of his atoning sacrifice. We showed a video of the Nativity. It's the only thing in all of this that I actually know is real. What else is there?

Monday, December 19, 2011

After math of the typhoon

Just a few pics of the flood and the after math. I tried to get them connected to the words, but wasn't successful.
The pictures are from 3 different days-- the day of the storm, just out watching, the next day, Sunday, with members in the yellow vests, the third with missionaries from our zone, name tags only. The pictures are all mixed up from all three.

I wish the pictures could adequately describe the scene in front of our eyes. Other places like Cagayan De Oro were hammered. Hundreds dead and missing. It was hard to take pictures because I felt so badly about having people see me using the camera.

The swollen Amlan River. Usually clear and nice. The river is flowing well behind the tree line.

Everyone out of their house and on the highway, looking across the bridge that's closed





























The rescue efforts begin. Food and water. This was a dangerous walkway. This is one the bank of the first picture above.
The young man we wrote bout that lost everything, scriptures, pig, everything in his room is taking some food, water and fuel. About 500 yards of mud is in front of him. We made the hike in today with the elders and sister in the zone. The picture on the right. It is a good thing we had our recently purchased boots on or we wouldn't have made it through the mud. Sister Cropper carrying dried coconut frawn stems for fire wood. When we got in Uncle Carlito was unable to get up because of his gout and the young man below was burning up with a fever. We gave two blessings.


There was mud everywhere. First things first. Get the clothes washed and hung up to dry. Saturday night I was up to my calfs in water and mud in this spot.

Below are some of the other spots and people we worked with. Everyone is happy to have the Mormon Helping Hands Vest on.The road is just covered with coconut husks and banana trees. We got a text from the member who lives down this road tonight. Can you please help clear the road tomorrow so the power company can get in we are still without electricity. 8 o'clock tomorrow morning we will be there with other members.
The last house we went to today (above is on our way there) had several ravaged neepa huts and the old grandma coughing from pulmonary tuberculosis with one her little of her granddaughters she was watching just crying because they were hungry and scarred. The grandma couldn't do anything about it. We went back later with fuel,food, sleeping mats, and cooking equipment and a priesthood blessing. Her family had returned from a day of searching for food and tools to dig themselves out. the tide had come up so our only access was to squeeze through a hole in a rickety cement block wall that was ready to fall. By the way that is their only way out also. this faithful sister/grandma brings her 4 & 6 year old grandchildren every Sunday down that dangerous path along the river and walks to church. Everyone there had tears and we were grateful for our visit. The grandpa put his hands on our shoulders as we blessed his wife. It was a great spiritual feast. We are sorry for all the trauma that is being experienced by most people here. There are hundreds of thousands of people that are seriously effected. Add our backs and feet in your prayers.

Sunday, December 18, 2011

Typhoon Sendong, pictures to come

For many here, life teeters on the edge of a knife’s blade. A mere thousand pisos ($25.00) can improve the situation for some immensely, but the bludgeoning of a typhoon, like we experienced two days ago, sends thousands beyond the ability to manage and even function. About 600 died from the storm so far, mostly on Mindanao, the island to the south of us. The storm came on so quickly and dropped so much rain that in took no time for the streams to become raging torrents pushing well beyond their banks, for much of it early on, we were unaware. We didn’t go out because of the heavy rain. We knew the ferry boats had cancelled their trips, because missionaries texted they would not be arriving as planned from Cebu. We knew our electricity had been out the day before from the high winds, and was out again. The guard from the resort had brought us a battery-powered light.

Finally the rain slowed down by about 2pm. I ventured out because I didn’t hear any traffic on the road outside. First time. It was eerily quiet. I walked out on the highway and noticed a big crowd down by the church which is somewhat close to the bridge over Amlan River. I told MA that I was going to drive down and take a look. Wow! The water had filled up the church parking lot and was flowing deep on both sides of the highway. I had to park because the police wouldn’t let me get any closer. I walked down the highway that had become a riverbed with the water flowing over the road, people were scurrying about getting their things on higher ground, the highway. The water was up to the steps of the church. I peered down the road to see the once calm, clear peaceful river that normally has children jumping in off the bank and water buffalo lazily standing in the river eating grass was now a raging torrent lashing and tearing everything in its way. The river tried its best to tear out the bridge but it stood solid. Other bridges did not fare so well. The police wouldn’t let anyone across, but and man carrying an old lola (woman) burst out the crown on the other side and sprinted over the bridge. People were there on the other side ready to help him, and she was quickly put into the back of a truck and hustled off. The last thing I heard was she needed tubig (water).

I stood on the edge of the bridge and saw the remains of what was once a beautiful grove of banana trees and lush vegetation flattened and torn out by the raging waters. This was the 19th typhoon of the season. The big typhoons they name after males and the smaller ones are named after women. I think it should be the other way around. J This typhoon was called Sendong. It’s a man’s name. It definitely had the punch of a man.

After seeing what I just saw I knew we were in trouble. The power had just gone out again, and though our resort has a generator, it was broken the first night, and now they had it fixed but were leaving it off in the day time. We take much comfort in our air con. When it goes away, also without any air movements from fans, it gets real hot real fast. I am certain that the man who invented air con is in the Celestial kingdom and if he is not there yet, he certainly has my vote! I don’t think my vote means much though. In our house there is always the low hum of the aircon but we have gotten used to it. That low hum represents something real pleasant like the Mormon Tabernacle Choir at Christmas time. That sound means there is going to be a high degree of enjoyment. No power meant our frozen and refrigerated food had a clock ticking—the brownies and lasagne we had made at great cost and effort for the Christmas missionary district meeting. These were pretty minor things compared with what was happening outside.

Some areas that have many homes are built only a few feet above the bank of the river so it doesn’t take much to send nearby occupants scurrying for higher ground. The national highway was one of the few nearby places. Traffic was mixed with people taking all their earthly belongings to the highway and leaving them there returning for another arm load. Cattle, pigs, dogs and any other animal found on a farm were loitering on the highway between passing buses trucks and cars that had no where to go. People walking up streets with chocolate brown water to their chests with a load of belongings on their head. In the lower areas there was no getting off the road because the water was too deep. The members were on their own, we had no access.

It wasn’t until dark that the water had slowed and receded enough that we could venture into some of the places that we were most concerned about. We knew that one area would be hit really hard. We received a text earlier from the family that said, “help”. Food, water, dry clothes, anything. This is one of the pioneer families here. About 20 members of the family. We felt a real obligation to find them and help. I was with the two full time missionaries. Off we went in the thick of night. Black of night is more accurate. With canned fish, rice, and flashlights we got out of the truck having driven as far as the mud would allow. Rolled up pants and Keens on my feet, off we went looking for our family. The flood waters had been about six feet deep here. There was no real visible sign of the road just my memory having driven down it a few times in the daytime. Here we were with banana trees knocked over and mud everywhere. It didn’t take long before we knew there were other things alive where we were leaving our foot prints in the mud. Worms about 12-18 inches long. One of the elders said its okay elder they are dead. I felt a little better until I saw a few of them moving. I thought what else is alive in the mud. It was about this time that I was having some real issues keeping my Keens on my feet because of the suction from the mud hanging on to them as I pulled my foot out. There was no alternative, off they came. I was amazed at how squishy soft the mud was and I was just hoping not to step on something sharp. On we went. I soon realized that we had taken a zig when we should have zagged and nothing looked remotely familiar. Luckily there was a house with a candle light. I asked the elder to ask where the road is and if they knew the family we were looking for. He said dua. That means “right”. Hmmmm. More downed banana and deeper mud. I was losing confidence. Finally we came to what looked like it might be a road. As we continued down the road, all of us barefoot, I kept telling myself those worms are dead and nothing could have survived this. Something moved. It was a crab. I thought of the thousands of crabs in the crab field and instantly wondered how many more crab fields there were that I will never see, now the flood has scattered them everywhere. Oh, there’s another one! I noticed a flashlight coming our way. Ah, I thought a fellow traveler although more seasoned than we. As we got closer I greeted with a kumusta, maayon gabii! His response, hello elders! This was the guy we were looking for! He turned around and took us back to his house on stilts. Uncle Carlito, one of the few Fillipinos who looks older than his years-- the 55 year old uncle with gout who can hardly walk, although he is the one who walked all that way to church for two weeks running, was so happy to see us. It is the first time I have ever seen him smile. We dropped off their relief, gave Uncle Carlito a few pieces of candy, and we were guided back out. As we descended their stair back into the murky waters, we saw two more crabs with their clompers up out of the water as if extending an invitation to come their way. We didn’t listen to the invitation. I won’t go into detail about going into the next house except there were more crabs and we had a few snakes to boot.

The next morning was a Brigham Young Sunday. For those who could make it to church we had Sacrament meeting, a short Sunday school, then everyone gathered together to make a list of the families that needed to be found and preparations made to get food and water to them. Members were assigned families to check on and then report on to Pres. Bulay and me. Mary Anne and a sister from the branch came to our place and cooked a ton of rice—the electric rice cooker was out, but they had 3 huge pots at a time going on the butane stove. These people needed cooked rice since there was no dry wood for their fires, that is even if they had any wood or rice. Most people had no water available—either to collect from clear rivers as they usually do, or from taps like many have. Our water was fine, because it comes from that big tank we pictured a few blogs ago. It is not filtered,and we don’t drink it, but the branch pres. said the people all do. We filled and refilled about a dozn 5 gallon bottles and all the plastic bottles we had from the tap in our C.R. The rest of the day was delivering rice, cans of sardines and tuna, soap, and water. It is really wonderful to see the look of real appreciation on the faces of these good brothers and sisters: a ray of sunshine and hope amidst the gloom of mud and despair.

There is a last story that needs telling. We live in a house on the grounds of a “resort”. One of the employees in the store of the resort is a member of the church. He is seventeen and a great kid. He works six days a week for 10-12 hours a day. He recently got permitted time off work for two hours on Sunday so he could go to church then back to work. In the morning before church he was standing in front of the store with a couple of plastic bags in his hand just kind of staring. I walked up to him and asked him if everything was okay. He said no. His house was flooded and he lost everything—all washed away. The only thing he had left was the clothes he was wearing. I told him to get in the truck and I would take him home or at least part of the way, I wouldn’t be able to get him in all the way. We made two stops on the way, kerosene and water. This young man told me that the saddest thing was his scriptures and Sunday clothes were all washed away. He then told me of the real big thing. The pig he was raising for money for his mission was washed away. This young man was baptized two years ago, has a more than full-time job, and was thinking about his mission two years in the future. He said that he wasn’t angry about anything. “ I mean Job had it a lot worse than I do. I still have my family who loves me and friends. I am happy but sad all the same everything will be okay.” he said as he walked off with the five gallon water bottle over his shoulder and his left hand carrying the food and kerosene.

The news reports that there are 34 dead in our province—Negros Orienta; 600 dead in all, 400 still missing. Dumeguete City, ½ hour to the south, biggest city in the province, where we go for supplies, is a state of disaster. In Tanjay, the city to the north ½ hour, where we took the Elders home last night, there is destruction everywhere, people camping out at the church.

There have been nineteen typhoons of varying degrees hit the Philippines this year. People still smile. People are also very grateful. They walk on the knife’s edge but they do it very well.

The ferry boats are running again, electricity restored, we picked up the elders last night, we sat here in air conditioned comfort having finished a beautiful dinner made by the greatest woman I have ever known. We drove the elders home (though I was exhausted and everything hurts), and their apt. is okay. I had a glass of clean chilled water with my vitamins before bed in clean sheets, we have a toilet that flushes. I am much more grateful today for all of the incredible things that God has blessed us with than I was two days ago. Are typhoons a blessing or a curse?

Today we will be procuring more supplies for people and then more deliveries and assessing some more medium term needs like rebuilding. The bridge the branch members had built for a family a couple of weeks ago is now washed away and they have no egress from their flooded house except through a neighbor’s property. I don’t even know where they slept last night, the aged grandparents maybe on the floor with the son, his wife and 9 kids. There is much to do.